Hi My name is Connor Bourne,
Since the last time I was featured I’ve definitely had my ups and downs throughout college. But I wouldn’t trade the times for anything, as I feel like I’ve become a better wrestler and person. Two years ago my father passed away, and it was extremely tough for awhile. My father was an important figure in my life who was with me throughout my journey as a wrestler; always supporting me with love and advice. It’s impossible to replace the energy he brought to my life. |
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| Because of the way he raised me and the values he instilled, I think I’ve done well in making him proud. The season after I made the World Team for UWW Juniors I wrestled a few matches and had some ranked wins. Although I ended up tearing the ACL and Meniscus in my left knee. I tried to rehab it in order to still compete, but the damage was bad, so I had to opt out and get surgery my Junior season. This I think was another great example of my father still being with me and still helping me. |
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| At first obviously, I was very sad angry and confused as to why it happened, especially since it happened so close after my father’s passing. My identity and strength as a wrestler had been taken for a while, and I felt horrible. Even so, through my rehab process I gained my strength back. I thought a lot about my father and what he had engrained in me. The idea to never quit, and to get up again and again. I knew that no matter what happened with my career, that my father was proud of me because of the person I am. It was these little moments remembering memories that showed me he was always there. |
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| My recovery took a full nine months, so by the time the next season came around, I was fully rehabilitated and going up to wrestle at 197. My coaches and I thought it would be best to relax on losing weight for health reasons and just focus on wrestling. My season had ups and downs as does everyone’s, but I stayed determined throughout the season, wanting to show out for my team and family. I was the starter for my school and ended up losing in the match to qualify for Nationals at the Conference Tournament. This obviously really stung as I feel like I am one of the best wrestlers and should be on the National Stage. But agai,n my father’s teachings of never quit and get back up pushed me forward. |
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| As I sat there reflecting afterwards, I knew that I cared about the sport and my team too much to not come back for my Final 5th year. The family I created here is one that I’ll always remember, and my father always reminded me that you put effort into the people who put effort into you. I’m wrestling back down at 184 this season, as I’ve taken very good care of my body, and my coaches feel like I can make a National Run there. I’ve already gotten some good wins under my belt this season, and I hope to keep it going. As I said in the beginning, the ride hasn’t been smooth the whole time, but learning to enjoy the process, people and the opportunity I’m given, has been the greatest gift. All of these ups and downs have made me a better man which is all I can ask for in the end. |
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